Couple sharing a laugh together in their garden
Care for couples

Staying together at home, even when care needs are different

For many couples, the biggest worry about needing more care is being separated. Live-in care keeps couples together, in the home they love.

✓Your family, your choices, our support ✓A small, friendly team you’ll get to know ✓Companionship at the heart of everything we do
Why it matters

Care homes rarely keep couples together

Couples who move into a care home often have different care needs. In many cases this means being cared for separately, sometimes on different floors or units, which enforces separation for a significant part of daily life.

Very few care homes offer a double bedroom for couples, especially if one person has dementia, so sharing the same living space is unlikely. Quite understandably, this is something many couples can’t contemplate.

Whether it’s the frailty that comes with age, or one partner living with a condition such as dementia, Parkinson’s, or recovering from a stroke, our experience is that the main concern is always the same: being separated. Live-in care removes that worry.

Live-in care keeps couples together, in the home they love.

Care companion serving scones to a couple at home
How it helps

What live-in care for couples can include

1

One care companion for both of you

A single, consistent care companion who gets to know you both, your routines and the way you live together.

2

Support shaped around different needs

Care can be tailored to each person’s level of need, whether one needs a little help and the other more specialised care.

3

Time together, not tasks

With the day-to-day jobs taken care of, there’s more time and energy for the things you enjoy doing together.

4

Reassurance for the wider family

Children and relatives know both parents are supported, together, in their own home.

What happens next

Keeping you together at home

Every couple is different. We’ll take time to understand both of you before suggesting anything.

1
When you’re ready

Tell us about you both

Call or email us. Whether things are changing gradually or quickly, we’ll start by listening to what each of you needs.

2
First conversation

We talk through what’s needed

We’ll take time to understand the person, their needs and what matters most to them, and explain the options and costs clearly.

3
Before care begins

We find the right care companion

We’ll meet you in person at home to answer any questions and gather the information we need. This helps us match the right care companion, based on personality as well as experience. You’ll be introduced to your care companion before anything is agreed.

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Care begins

Support and guidance

Your care companion supports you both, and we stay in touch, providing guidance while everyone settles in and gets to know each other.

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Tailored one-to-one support

Care companions we know and trust

We help you find the right companion, one who provides peace of mind while supporting independence in a safe, familiar home environment. Our long-standing relationships are with care companions who have proven themselves in providing excellent care, and over 25 years in the sector we’ve developed a highly selective recruitment process.

All our care companions have extensive live-in care experience, from companionship to complex dementia care. They are fully checked and vetted, including Enhanced DBS checks, a full work history, multiple professional references and verified, up-to-date training.

On top of all the mandatory checks, we look for people who are naturally caring and compassionate, and who share our values of trust and integrity.

Care companion bringing tea to a couple at home
Common questions

Questions families often ask

Can one care companion support both of us?

Often, yes. One live-in care companion can usually support a couple, even when their needs are different. We’ll talk through what each of you needs to make sure the arrangement works for you both.

What if one of us is living with dementia?

Live-in care can work well for couples where one partner has dementia, as it keeps the familiar home, routines and relationship in place. Our care companions have experience from companionship through to complex dementia care.

How much more does care for a couple cost?

There’s usually only a relatively small supplement for a couple, depending on needs. Live-in care is typically around £1,300 per week for one person, and we’ll explain the costs for you both clearly before you decide anything.

Do we get to meet the care companion first?

Yes. You’ll be introduced to your care companion before anything is agreed, so you can be confident they’re the right fit.

Want to stay together at home?

Call us to talk through the options for you both.

Call 01730 624 070
Get in touch

Happy to talk through your situation, with no obligation

Call the team to talk through your situation and needs. We’ll listen, offer guidance, and help you understand your options.

We’ll usually get back to you the same day. Your details are handled in accordance with our privacy policy.

“McDonald Homecare provided an incredible service. Unlike other agencies we tried, they tailored everything to suit our mother’s needs. They made a difficult situation easy and enabled her to stay in the home she loved.”

Mrs L. Matthers

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📍 Lavender House, Larcombe Road, Petersfield, Hampshire
Leigh and Anila McDonald, founders of McDonald Homecare